Zues, When I met my husband one of the things I liked was that he directly told me "I will call you on Tuesday". He did not play that wait 3 day to call game. I hate that. Who makes these rule up anyhow. They are ridiculous and everyone knows them anyhow so following them is kind of silly. I understand your desire for honesty in a relationship. I think it's refreshing and was not trying to advise you to change, only saying that I understand how in a relationship that was rocky it would probably be misconstrued by a wife.
Reflecting on it, right now in my present situation, if my husband was to come and tell me that these past few months he was attracted to another woman at work, never acted on it, no longer has these feelings and wants to recommit to a relationship with me I would Appreciate it so much more then any lies and betrayal I am assuming he committed. I would work torwards making our relationship better.
PP s advise is great by the way.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
