Hi PP, yes I agree it's interesting, and I can see why you'd be playing things over in your mind. From what you post, it certainly seems as though the possibility of reconciliation at some point is somewhere on your W's radar and it's not a completely odious concept.

I'm with you on the logic of - okay, so you don't sound 100% sure that you want us to be D'd in the longer term.....so would it be a good idea to put a hold on the D for a time and see how that goes? I wouldn't go there, but that would be the logic..

I think you being a little mysterious is no bad thing and it does sound as though you've had some convos with her about things you have been up to. TBH, I would keep a cool head, keep on with your plans and keep doing what works for now.

Take care my friend (you are such a nice presence on the board, and so willing to learn and help others - I enjoy reading your posts) xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus