dday, attempting to find clarity

[dday]

As Sandi keeps pointing out, WW has to feel the loss to come out of the fog. (WW after her respect comment, not A) W has to feel that she is losing me. How do you portray that without being mean, insensitive etc. How do you get to that point? I am much less infatuated and obsessed with her. She isn't the same woman right now.

I do want to reconcile, but she has work to do. She knows that I want to be together. How do I let her know that I can be ok without her, and have a future with or without her in it?