SciDad, thank you. If I am doing better than you than I am sorry for you! I was about a month ago really rocking this whole DB thing, I could have been the DB poster child for a little while there.
I just had coffee with a friend of mine, she is a therapist. I told her how I was starting to lose it, how I had no voice, no say in the marriage, but that was my choice because of the crisis situation. She said that is a good and valid choice to make during a crisis, but as humans we can only go so long denying our own needs and feelings before we start to either break down physically or emotionally or turn really dysfunctional and not be able to break out of it. She said that based on what I told her I need to stop putting H and his problems first. Same advice that you all have been giving me.
Now to implement it. First thing- I will get a job.
