Things are never as good and never as bad as we think. I really do think that it's a good thing that your H is showing/dealing with his emotions, but I wish it didn't take a toll on you. You're a good person and wish the best for you. Please try to keep your perspective (seems you're doing better than me) and take it one day at a time. Focus on what helps you and it will help your family.
If only I could listen to my own advice....
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou