Then she told me to look and asked who it was from nd she had a text from the OM. I had a real tough time keeping my cool almost started yelling but i held back and left the room.
This is so gross to me. Sorry.
But now to the point...it's clear WW is going to continue her affair, and will continue to flaunt it. The goal can't be to get her to end her affair, or to feel remorse, or to respect you, or anything else like that, because you can't control her. The goal instead must be to get yourself to a point where she can't hurt you this much, to where you are detached, maybe put off but not mortally wounded, and where you feel sorry for her and more disinterested than upset.
How can you start taking steps to get there?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
