Hey all thanks for the insperation and advice. Had a rough morning. Wife accused me of looking at her phone to see who she had received a message from. I said i didnt know i wasnt looking. Then she told me to look and asked who it was from nd she had a text from the OM. I had a real tough time keeping my cool almost started yelling but i held back and left the room. I want to kick her out of the MBR tonight but im supportive of sandi's advice to get through christmas for the little guy S1. Not sure if that will be possible if i move forward moving her stuff out of MBR and putting a lock on the door. Will that bring on the storm that is talked of?


M30 - W29 - S1.5
EA/PA Confirmed - Oct 30, 2015
Confronted W about the A - Nov 1, 2015
W asked for seperation - Nov 22, 2015
W moves out of house - Jan 3rd, 2016