Wife checked out

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My reaction to her letter was more of a non reaction. In other words I didn't break down crying and promising to change. I just began to change quietly and slowly. Maybe too much so. At the time I was drinking at least 8-10 beers everyday now I only drink on weekends and limit it to 4-5. I never was a liquor drinker. At my heaviest I was at 260lbs and now weigh under 200. I feel better than I have in years and run and lift often. I plan to lose 10 more and try to maintain there. I'm a stocky build anyway so if I lost more than that I'm afraid I would look too thin in the wrong places. She has struggled with her weight through the years as well, going up and down regularly. She has been at her smallest for the past three years or so and looks great. She also had a "mommy makeover " cosmetic surgery about three years ago also. Tummy tuck and boob job.