Thanks az. I know now that she has to forgive me for everything before we can ever approach r. By everything, I mean what really transpired, and her rewritten version too. As far as the splitting goes, I could be happy with either side of my proposal. Column a or b. I am going for equal. I don't want to screw her, financially, but I don't want screwed either...financially
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....