Zoo -- Best of luck! I love your h's honesty and insight...AND yours too, of course. I think you are both giving a special gift to each other.

And whether you intended to or not, I've taken the "trying too hard" message to heart. Think of it as your last bit of advice!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.