Ok I need to back off a bit.

I'm guilty of applying pressure, pursuing.

W and I went through our diaries to make sure we had each other's plans sorted.

Back in early part of this year, maybe February W wrote this in my diary on her birthday date.

19th December
My lovely wife's birthday!
Keep day free to totally spoil her!
Because I love her soooooo much!

She read this again in my diary a few weeks ago and today I effectively reminded her of it, without actually mentioning it. She knows what she wrote.

I said what are you doing on your Birthday when are you going to the party.

She said I thought you already knew, I said I've only got what you wrote in January.
She said maybe we can go out for lunch - all of us. Don't pull a sad face.....


I wasn't pulling a sad face.

Anyway time to back off for a few hours.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16