Your pride and integrity will be the engine to help you detach. Of course your boys are additional motivation but you want the best for them in any circumstance. Your motivation to fight the good fight and to do the right thing is internal.
When the next weak moment happens, we all have them, try to use your pride. Pride is powerful, it is so powerful it is one of the seven deadly sins. Your on a righteous crusade so you'll be fine. Reach down and find strength in your pride while trying to detach. Small steps forward add up in the end and get you where you need to be. Be strong
