Crumbs and more crumbs. You're not thinking of buying her a birthday present are you? The way I see it is she can spend as much money as she likes, but you have to account for every penny you have spent. Sounds like a control issue there.
Texting OM. I would say, and it's only my opinion, when it gets to phrases like 'I miss you' etc., it's a EA. Let's face it, when was the last time she said that to you? My W used to say that to me all the time if i'd been away with work, but slowly, over the past 18 months, she's more likely to have complained if I went away. Beware. You can't get too hung up on this guys looks/size/mental ability, it's what's underneath that she's finding attractive right now.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
