Thank y'all for the input, I agree that we can't work on our relationship as long as she is working on another one. I do however have an issue with the disrespect. By her and by the other people who would potentially be involved with her. Given that she informs them that she is married. There is a good chance that I will never be able to forgive her and I don't want to put the kids through anything like this. But I have my limits.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15