Okay, Zoo,

I'm going back to your post outlining DON'T DO THESE BEHAVIORS for a clue in some things as I see them:

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I plan on addressing my OWN "care and feeding instructions" as well because it is actually the TWO of us that make up the M...and yes, I have been neglecting ME lately.




When I'm feeling the way you seem to be feeling (messy emotions that aren't terribly helpful or even reliable in giving me useful information), it usually goes back to not taking care of myself.

What have you been neglecting that you do when times seem to be going more smoothly and you seem impervious to the zillions of unpleasant triggers?

Any thoughts?

Betsey


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein