Now what?

[melweb]

I am trying, but dang if it doesn't feel like he really means it--when he says it. But then he does the "weird" stuff, like asking me if I like his pants, that were already on him; calling me sexy; washing and vacuuming my car, asking me if I needed help with Thanksgiving dinner---he never even did that on a good year! Is there a way to tell if he is just doing this to be nice and keep the peace, as he really wants us to be "friends" in the future, or are my changes really making an impact?