Wayward Wife, my addiction, advice needed

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Update time.

Wife and I met up with counselor/pastor. While she has cut off contact, she sees no reason to unfriend him on Facebook or to not have contact with him.

She is definitely trying to be one step in/one step out of the marriage, and even made a complaint to the counselor that I'm not spending much time around her... So she's noticed, but she just isn't understanding her actions, and the hurt they've cost me, and ultimately, her. I even told her part of me now doesn't want to see the marriage work, as she's not really willing to put her whole heart into reconciliation. My needs out of the marriage were always there, I just never vocalized them. I told her that we'd BOTH have to work at changing our behaviors, and that it's doable. She's not willing - yet - to make those changes.


We're going to see a pops concert on Sat. night - should be interesting.