I don't see why you need all the dirty details to help me on this?
When you've spent enough time on this board Bobby, you see where people's resistance is. You could have answered this question and been on to the healing and growth portion a long time ago. But you're not. You're still here stuck arguing why the pros are asking you for something. You haven't moved forward. You haven't grown.
Until you're ready to be real, none of this works. Hell, even then it may not work, but it won't work at all until then.
So keep asking why Mr. Bond needs to know. Stay stuck on this question and then you don't have to do the deep work that's going to move you forward in your situation. Even if you're D gets finalized you can still use the process for your own benefit. You can grow in ways you never thought possible. You can change your whole life, how you exist in relationships, and the potential you have for your next one.
Or you can stay exactly where you are.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
