Pho's thread- things that I have learned

[JulieH]

I really think you will be relieved. It was great for me to not be around that negativity. He was right. Nothing changed for me. My son's and I developed a stronger bond because I had less tension once I accepted he was gone. I wasn't worried anymore because I knew it could not get too much worse, only better when he has to pay. So horrible how unequal he was with all the finances. We really did not work as family unit.