Had a great Thanksgiving. We kept it just to the 4 in our immediate family, but we rolled out dinner as a team effort and although we're pretty good at the routine, it went even better than usual. I probably shouldn't have, but I mentioned it to my wife and she agreed. A (Very brief conversation about the advances we've been making in our relationship ensued. Essentially, we agreed that we had a ways to go, but that it was better. I'm not reading much into that, but I'll take it as a positive sign.
Wife went shopping on Black Friday and I was irrationally scared she was gong to see the OM. Don't think she did, because she started texting me from the store to get ideas on clothes she wanted to buy for the kids... Whether or not things work out, 2 things are abundantly clear to me. 1) I am to focused on what my wife/OM do. I need to be happy with what I do and what I have. I got an afternoon alone with my boys and we had a blast. Nerf guns and sword fighting are a great way to spend the afternoon... 2) I am still WAY to jealous and untrusting. I need to work on this, but I'm not totally sure how.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
