I don't get this. We have similar lifestyles but my ExW's OM is clearly an ego boost whereas I can't see that in your W's OM (if that's what he is).
I kinda get the impression your reading too much into him. Now, that doesn't mean it's not an inappropriate R she has with him that should stop but it doesn't have the hall marks IMO.
I think you may be looking in the wrong direction. Idk but it just doesn't pass the smell test. Know what I mean?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
