Hi Zoo,

I love the new thread and the title I think is perfect for what we were discussing last night.

Might be our H's wouldn't like to know we treated them like out pets. Little do they know the pets receive excellent care!

I know not the appropriate kind of care for a relationship, but it is nice to realize where my pattern was coming from.

Hmm..I think I hijacked a bit.

Keep up the good thinking and get that darn book. NOW! It will help you and if you h reads any it will help him.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"