Just to be clear her comments about the purchase were from a guilty stance (wanting me to give her the ok?)

There was no vindictiveness to her comments...in fact she came back into kitchen and said ' I feel guilty .....blah blah, I feel bad , blah blah'

Later she was checking her online banking accounts and I saw she has �6k in a saving account, his is around what I was expecting.

In the long run it doesn't matter that she spent this money. It will leave us with less cash but we have an asset.

Though I do see it as a negative that she didn't ask me before purchase, as she probably would have asked me before BD.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16