So you are sleeping in the same bed as your W who is also sleeping with OM?

Don't you see the lack of respect here? Where is the consequence of her choice?
Choice = consequence= loss
Kick her out of the MBR!

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16