New thread - My WW

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I have laid down that boudary and i stick by those words i just not sure what yo do to enforce it. I do stand by it i will not live in an OM where my wife carries out in appropriate relationships with other people and had her focus set on them. Just not sure what to do next other people told me not to draft up divorce papers. She wont leave the house because she wants to be with son. I will not leave house.

I would like to get her out of our MB but i asked if i should move her stuff change the locks right away based off the other night or do i wait for another obvious act of disrespect and do it at that time.

I guess she hasnt lost much yet. Gosh i suck at this

I thought she would be more mad about the phone app she was but not as mad as i expected. She just said alot about her not being able to trust me now. And how she doesnt think us is going to work. She doesnt think we will be able to get over the trust issues.

I do know for a fact she was with the other man she told me and im pretty sure they were physical that night. I overheard her tell her freind she had a wild night.

This is a real tough time for me to be in this situation. I feel bad for our little guy its his first christmas he will really get to enjoy it. He was too young last year. Normally we share responsability of planning our christmas gatherings. I wont plan the bday party and i wont buy her a gift.

I am bad and i have continued spying. I know i need to stop but im having a hard time. I had a glimmer of hope a couple times when she seemed to get mad at OM when he did not make himself availikle to meet up with her. I thought that was a good thing but maybe its just her trying to push his buttons and minipulate him into giving here what she wants. Any chance this could be the ultimate end to their A eventually. Last night i saw her tell him she doesnt think they can talk anymore shes too sensitive for their kind of relationhlship. She gets sad easy and stuff like this. What do you think is this a good sign?

Do i just keep on doing what ive been doing and wait until she comes to me showing true remorse? At what point do i pick her back up and show her i do actually care. Is that a ling ways away still?