Wife checked out

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So W and I went to MC last night and talked about where we are right now. She says she isn't ready to move at all toward R. She is still upset that I confronted OM and "tried to embarrass her in front of her friends " and that she didn't think I would have done anything like that. Which for the most part is true, I am not a violent person and haven't been in a physical fight since I was in my early 20s. It actually takes a lot to get me aggravated in general, but when it comes to threatening my family well then all bets are off. After she said this she still wouldn't say that she wanted to D even after the C asked her. After our session, I went to MILs and picked up the kids and went home. She showed up at the house this morning so I left. I'm still confused as to why she is wanting to immediately start dating people. In the end I believe that she will find out rather quickly that it ain't all it's cracked up to be but still don't understand why. She says that because I was her only real relationship she feels like she missed out on the freedom and excitement of dating. I told her , hey when you get it right you get it right there's no need to go after disappointment.