NDY and Max - Thanks again - all input is appreciated

The recorder is placed. She asked me to check over her car as she had accidently damaged the underside going over a kerb - so I took the opportunity.

It looks exactly like a thumb drive and I dont think W is computer savvy enough to realize what it is even if she finds it. I will leave it in about 1 week and see what transpires.

NDY - My IC called it an inappropriate friendship (EA in all but name!) and said W would justify all her actions because she was/is going through hell mentally/emotionally.

OM has at least a crush on W, W is more circumspect, batting back his replies/advances.

Their convos will reveal more of the truth.
I have sat next to W this afternoon watching TV and W got one or two pings on her phone. Its hard to know whether they are texts or FB updates. She has become FB obsessed over the last 4 years with 280 FB friends and she likes or comments on a lot of other peoples posts, and might be getting replies to her comments or texts from any of her friends or indeed OM. I just have to ignore it.

There has been no disrespect today.

4 years ago W had no IPad, was not on FB, and had a crappy cellphone. Social media in my view distorts the real world and facilitates conditions for Spouses to become wayward.

I also found out that OM has 2 SS as well as his D12.

PS W said I looked good last night before I went out - positive

Last edited by isittoolate; 11/28/15 03:42 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16