Thanks for all the advice. Today I was surprised by her at S's basketball game. Apparently she had mentioned to him that she might drop by but he hadn't told me. She smiled to other parents and then sat by me. I didn't say much directly to her at the beginnin, just carried on talking and laughing to other parents. She had no interaction with parents. Later her Aunt dropped by so I told her what I had been doing with morning. I did my longest run, 15km and then tried cooking a recipe from my clas. Showed the photo. Mentioned I was going to sign up for some more classes in the New Year. Noticed when she checked her phone she has OM contact with a kissy face icon which made feel a bit sick.After the game she smiled and remarked on. My cooking before she mentioned she had bought an expensive coat in Black Friday sales. I said we might have to look at the finance situation as S and I don' spend like she does. She took this to mean lawyers with neither of us want. I said no but understand when I go to see my parents at Christmas I'll be spending too. She said she has never queried my spending which is true. We left without hugging and kissing. No R talk throughout the whole time just cheering S plus I got to laugh and joke with others. Could have done without seeing her but at least I kept myself together after the initial What are you doing here question. I'd like to have known you were coming.
