I must admit that IS, your last post is a bit of a 180 from where I thought you were. I'd leave the Intel for a while right now as it could do more damage than good. Seems the EA isn't confirmed after all.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.