Hi Fogg, your another early riser. I have a great IC I really like and see her each week. The IC is out of network so we pay 50% of the cost. I cannot afford a DB coach also. My IC agrees with DB views and sometimes suggests thing that you fine people say to try, so I will stick with my IC.
My only disappointment is seeing my wife sad and/or depressed. She goes to IC also. There is nothing I can do about it . I respect her wishes and make life pleasant within the house. I cook, run errands, maintain the yard, do the grocery shopping and so on. I do these thing by choice and harbor no resentment. I want my wife to be better, she is struggling and that saddens me. I am being patient, kind and compassionate. Hopefully time will heal her wound.