Sorry mutatio, I can see how frustrating your circumstances are. Just remember what she's doing is about her and not you so don't take it personally. I read a book lately on 4 agreements we can make with ourselves to live happier. One of them is never take anything personally and I can say it's helped me alot this year with not letting what W is doing crush me.
Not sure if you have said before, but have your thought of getting a DB coach? I know it's expensive but just having some clarity and direction is a huge help.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
