Maximus, I have only read some of your posts from earlier, and I have to catch up on recent ones. There was one incident where you had a talk with her and she responded more intimately. I believe you also mentioned that she enjoys reading erotic novels.
From a female perspective, when men communicate with us about non-superficial things we connect more and feel more intimately inclined.
Also, if she likes erotic novels, Perhaps verbal is her love language (I never actually read the book..it depresses me because my husband is gone and we can no longer work on things) but if that is true, do you think a lot of verbal compliments and expressing to her your desires for her might help improve intimacy? She seems to take great pride in working out. Do you tell her how good she looks and how much she excites you? Probably important for her to know and hearing this said out loud might excite her. I think for many women it's an ego thing. Women get turned on knowing they are attractive and desired.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
