For thanksgiving I invited the whole tribe to our house (her family and mine) without directly inviting her or involving her in any of the planning. The kids and I made an apple pie and mashed potatoes and such and I got up early to cook the turkey. I had each individual family bring a different food item. This is a big 180 for me as in the past she would have handled all of this. She was here and did help clean a little before anyone else showed up. All in all it was very nice. W and I ended up talking a lift R stuff before she headed back to MILs. Probably not a good thing but I am beginning to see the purpose behind detachment and the STFU soda pop.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15
