Hi Ancaire, Rouky, Julie Pho. I lost track of who's thread this was. Oh it's mine, I think. Anyway something new has come to light re H that has really helped me detach.
He is cheating on OW with another woman!!!!!! ( someone we have know for years through the kids) Anyway I now realize he is not "in love" with OW. he is just using her He is going through some serious ...it
I think he may be an addict - he is engaging in some deviant behavior
He is texting the 2nd OW about meeting up for .... And then at same time texts me about coming over to help put up Christmas lights. I just replied "Done already". He asked if he could help with anything else. I will not reply. He asked for ideas about Christmas presents for ME and kids. I did not reply.
He is also drinking a lot. I think he is going to explode or implode - something has got to give - he is wrapped up in sooo many lies
