Thanks, Fogg, that´s exactly how I want to proceed. STBXW and I so far don't have disagreements when it comes to the kids. Last Thursday was my day with them. However, STBXW had another parent inviting the kids to a Thanksgiving party, so she asked to have them. I promptly accepted. I felt sad. Some time ago I would also have been invited.
In exchange, today, and until Sunday morning, I will have the kids, although it's STBXW weekend.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15