Thanks, Fogg, that´s exactly how I want to proceed.
STBXW and I so far don't have disagreements when it comes to the kids.
Last Thursday was my day with them. However, STBXW had another parent inviting the kids to a Thanksgiving party, so she asked to have them. I promptly accepted.
I felt sad. Some time ago I would also have been invited.

In exchange, today, and until Sunday morning, I will have the kids, although it's STBXW weekend.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15