I could have written your note about your fears. I have all of the same one. I heard some wisdom that said to write down all the things you are thinking, what you would lose, why you would stay, and then cross out all the fear-based responses. You WILL be able to find someone else, you CAN buy another house, etc. Emotions are not our friends. If would could just look at it like a business transaction and see if it was a net gain or loss, our decisions might be easier.


H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling