THe NATURAL reaction to being a sex starved man is to get depressed and to become grumpy. I know that I catch myself getting very cross with my children at times for them just being kids. And our ND wifes don't ever connect our grumpiness to the lack of sex. They end up thinking WE are depressed. I think this is why Dr. Laura says that men are NOT in control of their emotions, they rely upon the WIFE for their emotions.