She wants me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA Confirmed!

[NDY]

Hi guys. Can I just clarify that the gathering of Intel shouldn't be at the expense of IS working on himself but it is needed so that IS understands what he's dealing with.

This isn't about confronting the OM. He's not the problem. She is. As has been said many times on these boards and elsewhere females can only be romantically attached to one man at a time. I believe this. I think it's true and IS needs to know if his W is romantically attached to this guy or not. If she is then the way he deals with his W will be dramatically different from a WAS.

But the Intel part is, as you point out Max a fine line. If the A can be proved beyond a shadow of a doubt then words aren't necessary in a confrontation. Also, this may well be a deal breaker. And this requires even more work on yourself IMO because it's heartbreaking.