Calibri - I needed to hear those words too. I was paralyzed with fear too until I realized it was at my expense.
Pho - I too lost my voice in my marriage. I see it now and I am getting it back. I was scared to lose what I thought was real, I was willing to put up with anything. I know how you feel. Please don't lose yourself at the expense of this broken man. Your children will be great because they will have a strong role model for them.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15