I am all for verifying if we need to prove a point and so long as we know where to draw the line with snooping.
Have you ever looked at your signature below your profile? are you content on living each year with a BD and recon a few days later?
Right now you are going to a W that possibly has OM and disrespects you. Your answer is to put a recorder in her car?
I may be wrong here IS but shouldnt you stop worrying what she may or may not have and think about what YOU do and do NOT have?
How is this in any way dropping the rope, detaching, GAL, etc. Where is your self respect? How do you plan on working on yourself to get her respect? do you think you ever will?.. like this?
You have been taken on a roller coaster ride for too long, when do you call it a day? By that i do not mean D but think of you, your kids and how this affects them. How do you think your kids see you?
I agree that D should be avoided and I am NOT saying that you take that step but after 5 years... you have been up and down more times than a hookers draws.... when do you let go, see who you are, what you want and if at the end of the day this is really the life you want to live for the rest of your days..... worried when the next BD will be.
This is no way to live. You are so caught up in catching her out that you forgot if she is a catch at all.
Just think about it for a day. it is a worthwhile investment ... one day for the rest of your life.
