You have to check if you can take money out of the joint account? Does she ask for receipts? My view is a joint account is just that, you both pay in, you can both take out, as long as it's for normal purposes.

I'd check that account. Has she paid for meals etc. with OM from it? That's a nice bit of evidence. Watch out you don't come across as controlling though. In fact, scrub that, sit on it until a later date.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015