Vise,
I struggle with that question too. My D is scheduled to be final on 12.18 but I imagine she'll still be in the house because I have to wait until after the D to refi the house and then another week to pull the equity out. She needs the equity to buy her new place. I will probably get her something small from D4. WW birthday was last week. D4 picked out a card and a $1 box of candy.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place