Vise, I struggle with that question too. My D is scheduled to be final on 12.18 but I imagine she'll still be in the house because I have to wait until after the D to refi the house and then another week to pull the equity out. She needs the equity to buy her new place. I will probably get her something small from D4. WW birthday was last week. D4 picked out a card and a $1 box of candy.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place