It does get a bit overwhelming at times to see all the new names and then others just dissappear. More troubling when someone new just searching for answers falls off after a few posts. As hard as BD is for many of us it makes you wonder what happened to them. That or someone who's struggling with suicidal thoughts just suddenly stops posting.

That's just the hard reality of the people that come to the site. Many of us come here at the lowest point in our lives and there are some that don't survive it.

I hope for the best with many of them but I know there are some posts in these archives where a person said there last words and it troubles me at times. I guess that's something we all have to be thankful for today, life.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be