Is when she traps you with stuff just deflect tge exact same way she does. Answer with a question and really use here exact words back. What would she say if you told her it upsets you when she just leaves? Answer that way. She'll either say nothing or start being disrespectful. Then just say you won't tolerate disrespect and hang up. Whether or not she's trying to control or not, doesn't matter much. She still needs to learn how to communicate in a way that eliminates guesswork. That you can change. Another thing too, you can speak the truth-something like you tell me you quitting on our marriage but you want to know where I am going? Why?
