so...yesterday was S now 17(ahh) bday. H asked to come by and that he would bring dinner and I would get the cake. He came over everything is going good boys are happy. He stayed over on the couch with S7 and it is just awkward for me...sometimes it is like I am his bff and then like I have cuties...woosah o need to work on my patience and breathing...
side note my fil left yesterday...considering his son's situation you would think he would try and spend the holidays with him...but nope