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[JulieH]

Hi JPEG

I recently went out with 2 couples. There were a couple of times I felt akward but it was worth it. Use it as an excuse to get dressed up and to gain some practice in a new scene. Usually the guys hang out and talk and the ladies talk amongst themselves.

I think that when you make decisions about how to spend Christmas, the very last thing you should think of is your husband and his feelings and wants. Do what YOU want. He is out of picture. Consider him a ghost. He has been very selfish, now it's your turn (and going on vacation with your kids is not selfish). Plus he checked out of your family so let him. Your kids need some fun and a vacation sounds lovely