I'm not at all religious, but I want to offer my thought anyway.
It's one thing to "find God" and to "see light". If that's what helps you to get through this time, then great. I'm all for it.
But it's totally another thing to impose this and share this with your W. What you saw and what you believe is for you. From what I can gather, the only reason you shared that with her was with the expectation that she would reciprocate in some way. If you truly did it with no expectations, then you wouldn't have been upset afterwards.
Sandi totally nailed what she wrote up there. Read it a few times before you try to share more of your revelations with your W.
