Thanks Sotto. She just rang me. In the beginning she was a bit tense but I talked her round. I explained why I needed to know and she told me everything. We talked about S and I explained that I have talked to him but she and he need to work things out. She was very interested in everything I was doing and how I was. Told her a couple of things I've done, saidI was fine, keeping busy. She said you have quite a social life. I just repeated doing fine, told her to take care and finished the call. Feel calmer