that was one of the shortest "long posts" I've ever read on this bb.
is this intended to be a letter or statement to w? or are you just venting out your frustrations?
Of course it all does make sense...We could all pick it apart piece by piece but if we did that it would no longer be your expression it would be a conglomeration of all our thoughts.
IF this is intended to be put into some form of communication to w...why don't you read it point by point as if you are her and attempt to hear it from her perspective.
then write your/her counter response to each point.
