Originally Posted By: gs9
it's hard to just let go and let God bc we don't see His master plan. We're fixers and we want to fix. But God doesn't need our help. God has a plan for us that is better than we could imagine. " I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord. Plans to prosper and not to harm. Plans of hope and of a future."

I'm more writing this for myself. I have to repeat this verse to myself dozens of times a day. I also find myself giving my M and my W over to Him several times a day.

It's out of my hands. I've done all I can do

THanks man, I guess the point I was trying to get across was ... that to have the better relationship you have to hit the bottom and rebuild it.

I don't know his plan none of us do, I do question how this could be part of a plan LOL man this is pretty freaking low!!!! IT's thanksgiving and I"m thankful for 1 thing, and that's going to jiu jitsu at 10am, my kids and a bottle of wine later..

I hope you all have a great and Blessed Thanksgiving.